Being anxious about perceived life deadlines isn’t just a problem for singles…instead of wondering if you’re “behind” or not, you could ask yourself, “am I living my life purposefully?”

Not all friendships are meant for forever. This is confusing to consider when so much of what we’re taught about friendship is in the context of either the permanence of covenant marriage or the theology of Christian niceness. It is difficult when we have spent extenuated seasons of life in loneliness and are desperate to hang onto companionship. It requires thought when we consider Jesus’ mandate to love. While we are never off the hook of loving others, there may be some relational hooks we need to dislodge in order to be at peace. And sometimes the most peaceful thing to do is walk away. The question is when and how?

To me, Cupid belongs in the same category as Santa Clause, and the Tooth Fairy: Harmless fun until you forget that it’s make-believe.